Three Card Reading

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3 Card Reading
From the Enlightenment Pack by Chuck Spezzano
The 3 Card Reading uses the principle of synchronicity to select
To begin, just think of a problem you have right at the moment (and if you don't have any problems then think of something you'd like to improve in your life). Choose a problem that you'd like to clear, if not entirely then at least the next layer of it. Think about this problem
Pick a card from the negative combination suits
3 Card Reading
Card 1 - The Problem
The first card represents the Psychological dynamic which is causing the problem. Look at this hidden or undrlying issue. Take your time, see if this could possibly be true for you. If you can't see it then look at those around.
Control (From Relationship Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Defense stemming from old heartbreaks; fear of trusting self and others

Control comes about when two parts of your mind want to go in different directions. There is a fear that if you go forward in one direction, the other will lose completely, and so there is a stalemate which stops you moving forward. When you’re in this stage of life, it can feel as if you are in a desert, coming to oases only now and then. Because people are as afraid of success as they are of failure, control can show itself in a number of ways. When you are truly successful, you are going with the flow of life, but your ego labels it as being ‘out of control’.

Although we try to control ourselves and other people so that good things happen for everybody around us, control actually comes out of fear. It is a defense, an attempt to protect ourselves. But people naturally resist control (we even resist our own control). It’s not surprising then that when we try to ‘protect’ ourselves and others through control, power struggles ensue, resulting in even more hurt and heartbreak. So control, like any defense, brings about what it’s trying to prevent. As an attempt to keep yourself safe, it limits your horizons. In any attempt to keep your partner safe as a source to fulfill your needs, you are dulling them.

Control creates power struggle in relationships. Wanting things our way, or creating a problem, can be a hidden way to fight for what we want - a form of tantrum. In a relationship, one person can have a problem which is actually an attempt to manipulate the other; while the other, as a way of ‘fighting’ back, appears nonchalant, unaffected or independent.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, you are being asked to communicate and trust. Let go of your idea of how it should be, so that you can see the best it can be. Look more deeply at any problems or other issues going on today. Ask yourself, who might you be trying to control by having these problems, and how might you be using problems, issues or people to control yourself? Receiving this card today is an invitation for you to integrate the two sides of the conflict, one side of which may be projected out as another person giving you this problem.

You are being asked to take a risk in opening yourself up, in sharing yourself and in moving forward. Trust would give you the confidence you need for this movement. Trusting in yourself, and/or trusting in Heaven’s strength, will lead you forward easily.

Pick a card from the Healing Suite (Green Card)
3 Card Reading
Card 2 - The Way Through
This step is the healing path, the answer, the way through. If there's an
Letting Go (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Releasing past loss and needs; coming into a present perspective; opening to the next step

If forgiveness is the hardest lesson to learn on one’s own, then letting go is the second hardest. Of course, all of this can be accomplished easily through grace and your Higher Mind, if you are willing to change, find the way out and succeed.

Letting go heals holding on, expectations, stress and perfectionism, all of which are based on some picture of, or demand for, how things, others and yourself should be. These demands are your idea for what would meet your needs. This constantly leads to disappointment or frustration, because no matter how well you have ‘written’ your script for happiness, it will not succeed with demands or needs. Needs secretly push away what they are trying to get, and demands repel and create resistance or sacrifice. You can evaluate the success of your script by looking at how happy you have been in your life. If it has only been some what successful for you, why would you impose it on someone else through expectations and demands?

Letting go of the past allows new goals and directions to appear. You cannot win if you hold on and demand that life return to a past which did not fully satisfy you before. With letting go, the past in not lost or thrown away, but is simply put into perspective. It allows you to live in the present once again. Letting go releases the judgment, grievance, guilt, loss, need and fear which lurk beneath every holding on. Choosing this allows your attractiveness to reemerge and also allows your life to unfold and improve. You can then take the next step, which brings new possibility and a truer life.

Using the card
If you receive this card, look for what person (or which aspects or qualities of a person), situation or past event you are holding on to which is stopping present success. Letting go is accomplished by feeling all the painful feelings until they are gone, or by giving your Higher Mind what you are holding on to and asking your Higher Mind to do it for you. Letting go allows the mourning process for past loss to be completed in the present. Once you realize that holding on will not work, your choosing to let go is at the heart of the letting-go process. For instance, holding on after a relationship is over effectively ensures there will be no present or future in that relationship. But, letting go provides an attractiveness and invitation to carry on the relationship, or to have a new relationship - at a higher level. If you receive this card, you are asked to recognize what you think you need, and to let go of it so that you can succeed.

Pick a card from the Gift and Grace
3 Card Reading
Card 3 - The Gift
Don't forget to receive your Gift... it's the very thing that this problem has
Freedom (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Principle coming from commitment and truth, allowing for happiness and giving yourself fully

Freedom is actually a healing concept which is a derivative of both commitment and truth. To receive it as a gift card means that freedom will be gifted to you in someway, that something which has kept you in chains will fall away. Today, something is moving out of your way and out of your life to give you a new breathing space, an new clarity and a new openness. You have given of yourself, and now the gift of freedom is coming to you. This means the stress, worries, burdens, troubles, misery and sacrifice and all fall away. As you allow yourself freedom, it demonstrates your own self-love. As you give others freedom, it demonstrates your love for them.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, do not be deceived by any traps. Be careful not to confuse freedom with the rebellion of independence — that is actually dissociation ( not wanting to be dependent on anyone) and is only a guise for freedom. Something which has stopped you is about to fall away. Celebrate its departure. Freedom will bring about true connection and true responsiveness, rather than ‘burdensomeness’. It is available and being offered to you today, to let you know of life’s sweetness. True freedom allows you to give yourself fully, because in doing so, you feel both free and focused. If connection and communication are the true state of being, it follows that freedom allows us to see our relationships with both things and people in a way which gives everyone liberty. Your freedom allows for happiness… and happiness takes no prisoners.

3 Card Reading
We sincerely hope this card reading has helped you and given you an insight to your issue. This service is free to use and many people use it on a regular basis to look below the surface of problems in their lives to find answers. If you would like to have another reading using a new set, click the button at the bottom of this page.
Control (From Relationship Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Defense stemming from old heartbreaks; fear of trusting self and others

Control comes about when two parts of your mind want to go in different directions. There is a fear that if you go forward in one direction, the other will lose completely, and so there is a stalemate which stops you moving forward. When you’re in this stage of life, it can feel as if you are in a desert, coming to oases only now and then. Because people are as afraid of success as they are of failure, control can show itself in a number of ways. When you are truly successful, you are going with the flow of life, but your ego labels it as being ‘out of control’.

Although we try to control ourselves and other people so that good things happen for everybody around us, control actually comes out of fear. It is a defense, an attempt to protect ourselves. But people naturally resist control (we even resist our own control). It’s not surprising then that when we try to ‘protect’ ourselves and others through control, power struggles ensue, resulting in even more hurt and heartbreak. So control, like any defense, brings about what it’s trying to prevent. As an attempt to keep yourself safe, it limits your horizons. In any attempt to keep your partner safe as a source to fulfill your needs, you are dulling them.

Control creates power struggle in relationships. Wanting things our way, or creating a problem, can be a hidden way to fight for what we want - a form of tantrum. In a relationship, one person can have a problem which is actually an attempt to manipulate the other; while the other, as a way of ‘fighting’ back, appears nonchalant, unaffected or independent.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, you are being asked to communicate and trust. Let go of your idea of how it should be, so that you can see the best it can be. Look more deeply at any problems or other issues going on today. Ask yourself, who might you be trying to control by having these problems, and how might you be using problems, issues or people to control yourself? Receiving this card today is an invitation for you to integrate the two sides of the conflict, one side of which may be projected out as another person giving you this problem.

You are being asked to take a risk in opening yourself up, in sharing yourself and in moving forward. Trust would give you the confidence you need for this movement. Trusting in yourself, and/or trusting in Heaven’s strength, will lead you forward easily.

Letting Go (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Releasing past loss and needs; coming into a present perspective; opening to the next step

If forgiveness is the hardest lesson to learn on one’s own, then letting go is the second hardest. Of course, all of this can be accomplished easily through grace and your Higher Mind, if you are willing to change, find the way out and succeed.

Letting go heals holding on, expectations, stress and perfectionism, all of which are based on some picture of, or demand for, how things, others and yourself should be. These demands are your idea for what would meet your needs. This constantly leads to disappointment or frustration, because no matter how well you have ‘written’ your script for happiness, it will not succeed with demands or needs. Needs secretly push away what they are trying to get, and demands repel and create resistance or sacrifice. You can evaluate the success of your script by looking at how happy you have been in your life. If it has only been some what successful for you, why would you impose it on someone else through expectations and demands?

Letting go of the past allows new goals and directions to appear. You cannot win if you hold on and demand that life return to a past which did not fully satisfy you before. With letting go, the past in not lost or thrown away, but is simply put into perspective. It allows you to live in the present once again. Letting go releases the judgment, grievance, guilt, loss, need and fear which lurk beneath every holding on. Choosing this allows your attractiveness to reemerge and also allows your life to unfold and improve. You can then take the next step, which brings new possibility and a truer life.

Using the card
If you receive this card, look for what person (or which aspects or qualities of a person), situation or past event you are holding on to which is stopping present success. Letting go is accomplished by feeling all the painful feelings until they are gone, or by giving your Higher Mind what you are holding on to and asking your Higher Mind to do it for you. Letting go allows the mourning process for past loss to be completed in the present. Once you realize that holding on will not work, your choosing to let go is at the heart of the letting-go process. For instance, holding on after a relationship is over effectively ensures there will be no present or future in that relationship. But, letting go provides an attractiveness and invitation to carry on the relationship, or to have a new relationship - at a higher level. If you receive this card, you are asked to recognize what you think you need, and to let go of it so that you can succeed.

Freedom (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Principle coming from commitment and truth, allowing for happiness and giving yourself fully

Freedom is actually a healing concept which is a derivative of both commitment and truth. To receive it as a gift card means that freedom will be gifted to you in someway, that something which has kept you in chains will fall away. Today, something is moving out of your way and out of your life to give you a new breathing space, an new clarity and a new openness. You have given of yourself, and now the gift of freedom is coming to you. This means the stress, worries, burdens, troubles, misery and sacrifice and all fall away. As you allow yourself freedom, it demonstrates your own self-love. As you give others freedom, it demonstrates your love for them.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, do not be deceived by any traps. Be careful not to confuse freedom with the rebellion of independence — that is actually dissociation ( not wanting to be dependent on anyone) and is only a guise for freedom. Something which has stopped you is about to fall away. Celebrate its departure. Freedom will bring about true connection and true responsiveness, rather than ‘burdensomeness’. It is available and being offered to you today, to let you know of life’s sweetness. True freedom allows you to give yourself fully, because in doing so, you feel both free and focused. If connection and communication are the true state of being, it follows that freedom allows us to see our relationships with both things and people in a way which gives everyone liberty. Your freedom allows for happiness… and happiness takes no prisoners.

Problem
Control
(From Relationship Suite)
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The Way Through
Letting Go
(From Healing Suite)
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Gift
Freedom
(From Gift Suite)
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