Three Card Reading

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3 Card Reading
From the Enlightenment Pack by Chuck Spezzano
The 3 Card Reading uses the principle of synchronicity to select
To begin, just think of a problem you have right at the moment (and if you don't have any problems then think of something you'd like to improve in your life). Choose a problem that you'd like to clear, if not entirely then at least the next layer of it. Think about this problem
Pick a card from the negative combination suits
3 Card Reading
Card 1 - The Problem
The first card represents the Psychological dynamic which is causing the problem. Look at this hidden or undrlying issue. Take your time, see if this could possibly be true for you. If you can't see it then look at those around.
Independence (From Relationship Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Fear of feeling, receiving or committing; compensation for old emotional slavery

Independence (an unhealed reaction to heartbreak and jealousy) is one of the three major roles. This role is a compensation for a painful place of heartbreak, jealousy, sacrifice or loss. The extent of our independence is also the extent to which we are afraid of intimacy and of being in the vulnerable position of receiving because it would bring up the old painful feelings. What we are attempting to do through this role is dissociate from painful feelings. Unfortunately, this cuts off the ability to feel at all, including the positive feelings and the potential of receiving. So, the extent of jour independence is the extent of both our heartbreak and sacrifice, which we have yet to heal.

At the heart of independence is a lack of connection and commitment to others. Independent people tend to be hard on both themselves and others. Part of the problem is their belief that ‘if the job is going to be done right, it has to be done by me’. The other part of the problem is that this leads to sacrifice, giving without receiving, which is a role in which we do not give our true self. Because independent people are afraid of intimacy and of receiving, they will attempt to run away from situations, either physically or emotionally, as a way of ‘solving’ the problem. This includes being stoic or dissociative.

Another key aspect to independence is the way one is subtly (or not so subtly) competitive in relationships. This may be a hidden competition, in which one becomes so good that no one else dares compete, or becomes so good that one develops a jaded ‘why-bother-competing-at-all’ attitude. Psychologically, competition is a form of avoidance which puts all the emphasis on winning. This can be very destructive in a relationship, since competition’s underlying objective is avoidance of (or distraction from) the real next step forward.

Using the card
If you get this card today, you are being asked to look at how your disconnection from yourself or others (your separation and/or competition) is creating the problem or issue you have at hand. Success here will mean a new level of joining with others. It will reflect your willingness not to be afraid of painful feelings and your own or others’ needs, and your willingness to feel even the hidden ones until they transform to positive feelings.

You are asked to repossess what you’ve been denying in yourself, and have been projecting on to others; to learn to accept your needs and feelings, so that you can also accept and respond to them in others without running away. Graduating from independence to true partnership and interdependence clears out feelings of dissociation, power struggle and deadness in relationships, and moves you into the richness of life which comes with intimacy and connection.

Pick a card from the Healing Suite (Green Card)
3 Card Reading
Card 2 - The Way Through
This step is the healing path, the answer, the way through. If there's an
Forgiveness (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Resolving hidden guilt in oneself; apologizing for mistaken blame; reconnecting; true understanding; giving forth

This is another core healing principle: forgiveness is really self-forgiveness. If the world is simply a reflection of your own mind, if all blame and judgment are projections of your own guilt and self-attack, then forgiveness of others releases both the others and the subconscious guilt within you. Guilt is really a form of arrogance which makes life all about oneself, rather than just learning the lesson, correcting the mistake and moving on. Forgiveness puts things in perspective and brings back innocence. It returns life to ease, flow and confidence.

Forgiveness is not a form of winning the competition while another fails. Nor is it about condescension or superiority. It is not designing to grant the other mercy - which is really superiority (hidden judgment and overcompensation for guilt and feelings of inadequacy) and competition (distraction from success and fear of the next step). We fear forgiveness because we feel that we would be locked into a position of sacrifice or wounding. We feel that we are justified in our grievance or anger and that it would be stupid to give this up. Yet grievances are never about what someone else has done but in fact are about what we have not forgiven ourselves for. We are actually holding our past against them. No situation can fail unless we fail to give something. Forgiveness is simply reconnection. It is an apology for blaming others for ‘crimes’ you thought that you had committed. Forgiveness is the realization that it was all just a mistake, and true understanding and a new healed situation appear. In forgiveness you finally get to give what was not given in the past. This heals you and the one being judged.

One of the core dynamics of any problem is broken bonding, or separation. Guilt is the superglue of life which keeps us stuck in painful patterns and situations, while forgiveness is the solvent which releases us not only from our guilt, but also from our withdrawal, unworthiness and sacrifice, and from the feelings of deadness, exhaustion, difficulty, being stuck, valuelessness and overcompensation. As we are released from that which separates us, we are reconnected and the problem is solved.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, understand that it is important to motivate yourself to forgive, because what you don’t forgive in any one person, you don’t forgive in everyone, including yourself. This means that, without forgiveness, you will create distance - even with those you love the most. The power to change your situation is in your hands. Forgiveness is a choice which creates a new giving forth and a new receiving. Release your grievances so the hidden self-attack and lack of freedom will be released. If done by oneself, forgiveness is a difficult lesson, and self-forgiveness can be even harder. But you can ask your Higher Mind for help in accomplishing the forgiveness.

While there are many beautiful forgiveness exercises, you could just as easily let it be done by grace. Realize that if you are blaming yourself or others the truth is being blurred. Choose the truth. Ask to know it. Ask for the forgiveness to occur. This may happen layer by layer, or it may occur all at once. In other words, you can ask for a miracle and the whole situation can be seen in a new light.

Pick a card from the Gift and Grace
3 Card Reading
Card 3 - The Gift
Don't forget to receive your Gift... it's the very thing that this problem has
Peace (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

The nature of Heaven and active basis from, which all good things generate

Peace is simply the state of being without conflict. It is being centered. It is responsive, both to yourself and to those around you. All happiness, love and abundance generate from peace. Peace is the nature of the Kingdom of Heaven. Rather than being boring or comatose, peace is actually an exciting and enlivening experience, full of grace, enjoyment and connection. It is an awakened and highly thrilling state. It is from peace that one can truly give and receive.

Using the card
Receiving this card today is a signal that you can be filled with peace of mind. This is the resolution to any problem, because it brings a peace which surpasses understanding. Peace allows for all good things. It is the beginning of health, abundance and love. Today let yourself be filled with peace, knowing that peace transcends all fear, separation and problems.

3 Card Reading
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Independence (From Relationship Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Fear of feeling, receiving or committing; compensation for old emotional slavery

Independence (an unhealed reaction to heartbreak and jealousy) is one of the three major roles. This role is a compensation for a painful place of heartbreak, jealousy, sacrifice or loss. The extent of our independence is also the extent to which we are afraid of intimacy and of being in the vulnerable position of receiving because it would bring up the old painful feelings. What we are attempting to do through this role is dissociate from painful feelings. Unfortunately, this cuts off the ability to feel at all, including the positive feelings and the potential of receiving. So, the extent of jour independence is the extent of both our heartbreak and sacrifice, which we have yet to heal.

At the heart of independence is a lack of connection and commitment to others. Independent people tend to be hard on both themselves and others. Part of the problem is their belief that ‘if the job is going to be done right, it has to be done by me’. The other part of the problem is that this leads to sacrifice, giving without receiving, which is a role in which we do not give our true self. Because independent people are afraid of intimacy and of receiving, they will attempt to run away from situations, either physically or emotionally, as a way of ‘solving’ the problem. This includes being stoic or dissociative.

Another key aspect to independence is the way one is subtly (or not so subtly) competitive in relationships. This may be a hidden competition, in which one becomes so good that no one else dares compete, or becomes so good that one develops a jaded ‘why-bother-competing-at-all’ attitude. Psychologically, competition is a form of avoidance which puts all the emphasis on winning. This can be very destructive in a relationship, since competition’s underlying objective is avoidance of (or distraction from) the real next step forward.

Using the card
If you get this card today, you are being asked to look at how your disconnection from yourself or others (your separation and/or competition) is creating the problem or issue you have at hand. Success here will mean a new level of joining with others. It will reflect your willingness not to be afraid of painful feelings and your own or others’ needs, and your willingness to feel even the hidden ones until they transform to positive feelings.

You are asked to repossess what you’ve been denying in yourself, and have been projecting on to others; to learn to accept your needs and feelings, so that you can also accept and respond to them in others without running away. Graduating from independence to true partnership and interdependence clears out feelings of dissociation, power struggle and deadness in relationships, and moves you into the richness of life which comes with intimacy and connection.

Forgiveness (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Resolving hidden guilt in oneself; apologizing for mistaken blame; reconnecting; true understanding; giving forth

This is another core healing principle: forgiveness is really self-forgiveness. If the world is simply a reflection of your own mind, if all blame and judgment are projections of your own guilt and self-attack, then forgiveness of others releases both the others and the subconscious guilt within you. Guilt is really a form of arrogance which makes life all about oneself, rather than just learning the lesson, correcting the mistake and moving on. Forgiveness puts things in perspective and brings back innocence. It returns life to ease, flow and confidence.

Forgiveness is not a form of winning the competition while another fails. Nor is it about condescension or superiority. It is not designing to grant the other mercy - which is really superiority (hidden judgment and overcompensation for guilt and feelings of inadequacy) and competition (distraction from success and fear of the next step). We fear forgiveness because we feel that we would be locked into a position of sacrifice or wounding. We feel that we are justified in our grievance or anger and that it would be stupid to give this up. Yet grievances are never about what someone else has done but in fact are about what we have not forgiven ourselves for. We are actually holding our past against them. No situation can fail unless we fail to give something. Forgiveness is simply reconnection. It is an apology for blaming others for ‘crimes’ you thought that you had committed. Forgiveness is the realization that it was all just a mistake, and true understanding and a new healed situation appear. In forgiveness you finally get to give what was not given in the past. This heals you and the one being judged.

One of the core dynamics of any problem is broken bonding, or separation. Guilt is the superglue of life which keeps us stuck in painful patterns and situations, while forgiveness is the solvent which releases us not only from our guilt, but also from our withdrawal, unworthiness and sacrifice, and from the feelings of deadness, exhaustion, difficulty, being stuck, valuelessness and overcompensation. As we are released from that which separates us, we are reconnected and the problem is solved.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, understand that it is important to motivate yourself to forgive, because what you don’t forgive in any one person, you don’t forgive in everyone, including yourself. This means that, without forgiveness, you will create distance - even with those you love the most. The power to change your situation is in your hands. Forgiveness is a choice which creates a new giving forth and a new receiving. Release your grievances so the hidden self-attack and lack of freedom will be released. If done by oneself, forgiveness is a difficult lesson, and self-forgiveness can be even harder. But you can ask your Higher Mind for help in accomplishing the forgiveness.

While there are many beautiful forgiveness exercises, you could just as easily let it be done by grace. Realize that if you are blaming yourself or others the truth is being blurred. Choose the truth. Ask to know it. Ask for the forgiveness to occur. This may happen layer by layer, or it may occur all at once. In other words, you can ask for a miracle and the whole situation can be seen in a new light.

Peace (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

The nature of Heaven and active basis from, which all good things generate

Peace is simply the state of being without conflict. It is being centered. It is responsive, both to yourself and to those around you. All happiness, love and abundance generate from peace. Peace is the nature of the Kingdom of Heaven. Rather than being boring or comatose, peace is actually an exciting and enlivening experience, full of grace, enjoyment and connection. It is an awakened and highly thrilling state. It is from peace that one can truly give and receive.

Using the card
Receiving this card today is a signal that you can be filled with peace of mind. This is the resolution to any problem, because it brings a peace which surpasses understanding. Peace allows for all good things. It is the beginning of health, abundance and love. Today let yourself be filled with peace, knowing that peace transcends all fear, separation and problems.

Problem
Independence
(From Relationship Suite)
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The Way Through
Forgiveness
(From Healing Suite)
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Gift
Peace
(From Gift Suite)
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