Three Card Reading

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3 Card Reading
From the Enlightenment Pack by Chuck Spezzano
The 3 Card Reading uses the principle of synchronicity to select
To begin, just think of a problem you have right at the moment (and if you don't have any problems then think of something you'd like to improve in your life). Choose a problem that you'd like to clear, if not entirely then at least the next layer of it. Think about this problem
Pick a card from the negative combination suits
3 Card Reading
Card 1 - The Problem
The first card represents the Psychological dynamic which is causing the problem. Look at this hidden or undrlying issue. Take your time, see if this could possibly be true for you. If you can't see it then look at those around.
Death Temptation (From Victim Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Weariness; burnout; great pain; a ‘why go on?’ feeling; hiding a birth opportunity

Essentially, there are two forms of death. The first is the inevitable passing at the end of life which is peaceful and easy - like changing clothes. The second is death temptation (either real or symbolic) which is a form of reaction to disappointment, a fight or curse against life. This form of death becomes a kind of power struggle in which you are consciously or subconsciously drawn toward self-destruction. You feel that the only thing which would truly end the pain or exhaustion you are experiencing is death. But in fact when you have a death temptation it is a chance to look at your circumstances and experience a rebirth although, because of the conflict you are in, you may think that there is no way out. Actually, there are many ways out, and you are being asked to be willing to change and have a rebirth in your life.

Conflict occurs when two parts of your mind are moving in different directions. One part may be projected on to someone, some group, or the situation outside you. The other part of your mind you identify with feels stuck. This can turn into an unlivable situation - but this is only because you are unwilling to let go of something and to change. So, the key out of this is the willingness to have a new birth in your life, which comes about by truly choosing life. In this new birth, you need to acknowledge that life can begin again (springtime follows every winter) but you must be willing to experience it. When you are faced with a death temptation, willingness, letting go, choice, rebirth, forgiveness and self-forgiveness are the key healing concepts. Through your willingness, and by asking for help from your Higher Mind, you can bring about the rebirth easily, and with grace.

Using the card
If you get this card and you are not aware that you have had a death temptation, ask yourself whether you are feeling such things as loss, heartbreak, guilt, disappointment, power struggle, exhaustion, burnout, mortification, physical and/or emotional pain, valuelessness and meaninglessness. These are the general categories which lead people to face a death temptation. Imagine you could help the whole world and save time, money and suffering by choosing rebirth gather than death. Be willing to allow yourself and the situation to change, perhaps drastically. Don't forget that even ‘impossible’ situations can be answered by miracles. Your new birth is as far away as your sincere choice for it.

Pick a card from the Healing Suite (Green Card)
3 Card Reading
Card 2 - The Way Through
This step is the healing path, the answer, the way through. If there's an
Forgiveness (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Resolving hidden guilt in oneself; apologizing for mistaken blame; reconnecting; true understanding; giving forth

This is another core healing principle: forgiveness is really self-forgiveness. If the world is simply a reflection of your own mind, if all blame and judgment are projections of your own guilt and self-attack, then forgiveness of others releases both the others and the subconscious guilt within you. Guilt is really a form of arrogance which makes life all about oneself, rather than just learning the lesson, correcting the mistake and moving on. Forgiveness puts things in perspective and brings back innocence. It returns life to ease, flow and confidence.

Forgiveness is not a form of winning the competition while another fails. Nor is it about condescension or superiority. It is not designing to grant the other mercy - which is really superiority (hidden judgment and overcompensation for guilt and feelings of inadequacy) and competition (distraction from success and fear of the next step). We fear forgiveness because we feel that we would be locked into a position of sacrifice or wounding. We feel that we are justified in our grievance or anger and that it would be stupid to give this up. Yet grievances are never about what someone else has done but in fact are about what we have not forgiven ourselves for. We are actually holding our past against them. No situation can fail unless we fail to give something. Forgiveness is simply reconnection. It is an apology for blaming others for ‘crimes’ you thought that you had committed. Forgiveness is the realization that it was all just a mistake, and true understanding and a new healed situation appear. In forgiveness you finally get to give what was not given in the past. This heals you and the one being judged.

One of the core dynamics of any problem is broken bonding, or separation. Guilt is the superglue of life which keeps us stuck in painful patterns and situations, while forgiveness is the solvent which releases us not only from our guilt, but also from our withdrawal, unworthiness and sacrifice, and from the feelings of deadness, exhaustion, difficulty, being stuck, valuelessness and overcompensation. As we are released from that which separates us, we are reconnected and the problem is solved.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, understand that it is important to motivate yourself to forgive, because what you don’t forgive in any one person, you don’t forgive in everyone, including yourself. This means that, without forgiveness, you will create distance - even with those you love the most. The power to change your situation is in your hands. Forgiveness is a choice which creates a new giving forth and a new receiving. Release your grievances so the hidden self-attack and lack of freedom will be released. If done by oneself, forgiveness is a difficult lesson, and self-forgiveness can be even harder. But you can ask your Higher Mind for help in accomplishing the forgiveness.

While there are many beautiful forgiveness exercises, you could just as easily let it be done by grace. Realize that if you are blaming yourself or others the truth is being blurred. Choose the truth. Ask to know it. Ask for the forgiveness to occur. This may happen layer by layer, or it may occur all at once. In other words, you can ask for a miracle and the whole situation can be seen in a new light.

Pick a card from the Gift and Grace
3 Card Reading
Card 3 - The Gift
Don't forget to receive your Gift... it's the very thing that this problem has
Freedom (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Principle coming from commitment and truth, allowing for happiness and giving yourself fully

Freedom is actually a healing concept which is a derivative of both commitment and truth. To receive it as a gift card means that freedom will be gifted to you in someway, that something which has kept you in chains will fall away. Today, something is moving out of your way and out of your life to give you a new breathing space, an new clarity and a new openness. You have given of yourself, and now the gift of freedom is coming to you. This means the stress, worries, burdens, troubles, misery and sacrifice and all fall away. As you allow yourself freedom, it demonstrates your own self-love. As you give others freedom, it demonstrates your love for them.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, do not be deceived by any traps. Be careful not to confuse freedom with the rebellion of independence — that is actually dissociation ( not wanting to be dependent on anyone) and is only a guise for freedom. Something which has stopped you is about to fall away. Celebrate its departure. Freedom will bring about true connection and true responsiveness, rather than ‘burdensomeness’. It is available and being offered to you today, to let you know of life’s sweetness. True freedom allows you to give yourself fully, because in doing so, you feel both free and focused. If connection and communication are the true state of being, it follows that freedom allows us to see our relationships with both things and people in a way which gives everyone liberty. Your freedom allows for happiness… and happiness takes no prisoners.

3 Card Reading
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Death Temptation (From Victim Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Weariness; burnout; great pain; a ‘why go on?’ feeling; hiding a birth opportunity

Essentially, there are two forms of death. The first is the inevitable passing at the end of life which is peaceful and easy - like changing clothes. The second is death temptation (either real or symbolic) which is a form of reaction to disappointment, a fight or curse against life. This form of death becomes a kind of power struggle in which you are consciously or subconsciously drawn toward self-destruction. You feel that the only thing which would truly end the pain or exhaustion you are experiencing is death. But in fact when you have a death temptation it is a chance to look at your circumstances and experience a rebirth although, because of the conflict you are in, you may think that there is no way out. Actually, there are many ways out, and you are being asked to be willing to change and have a rebirth in your life.

Conflict occurs when two parts of your mind are moving in different directions. One part may be projected on to someone, some group, or the situation outside you. The other part of your mind you identify with feels stuck. This can turn into an unlivable situation - but this is only because you are unwilling to let go of something and to change. So, the key out of this is the willingness to have a new birth in your life, which comes about by truly choosing life. In this new birth, you need to acknowledge that life can begin again (springtime follows every winter) but you must be willing to experience it. When you are faced with a death temptation, willingness, letting go, choice, rebirth, forgiveness and self-forgiveness are the key healing concepts. Through your willingness, and by asking for help from your Higher Mind, you can bring about the rebirth easily, and with grace.

Using the card
If you get this card and you are not aware that you have had a death temptation, ask yourself whether you are feeling such things as loss, heartbreak, guilt, disappointment, power struggle, exhaustion, burnout, mortification, physical and/or emotional pain, valuelessness and meaninglessness. These are the general categories which lead people to face a death temptation. Imagine you could help the whole world and save time, money and suffering by choosing rebirth gather than death. Be willing to allow yourself and the situation to change, perhaps drastically. Don't forget that even ‘impossible’ situations can be answered by miracles. Your new birth is as far away as your sincere choice for it.

Forgiveness (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Resolving hidden guilt in oneself; apologizing for mistaken blame; reconnecting; true understanding; giving forth

This is another core healing principle: forgiveness is really self-forgiveness. If the world is simply a reflection of your own mind, if all blame and judgment are projections of your own guilt and self-attack, then forgiveness of others releases both the others and the subconscious guilt within you. Guilt is really a form of arrogance which makes life all about oneself, rather than just learning the lesson, correcting the mistake and moving on. Forgiveness puts things in perspective and brings back innocence. It returns life to ease, flow and confidence.

Forgiveness is not a form of winning the competition while another fails. Nor is it about condescension or superiority. It is not designing to grant the other mercy - which is really superiority (hidden judgment and overcompensation for guilt and feelings of inadequacy) and competition (distraction from success and fear of the next step). We fear forgiveness because we feel that we would be locked into a position of sacrifice or wounding. We feel that we are justified in our grievance or anger and that it would be stupid to give this up. Yet grievances are never about what someone else has done but in fact are about what we have not forgiven ourselves for. We are actually holding our past against them. No situation can fail unless we fail to give something. Forgiveness is simply reconnection. It is an apology for blaming others for ‘crimes’ you thought that you had committed. Forgiveness is the realization that it was all just a mistake, and true understanding and a new healed situation appear. In forgiveness you finally get to give what was not given in the past. This heals you and the one being judged.

One of the core dynamics of any problem is broken bonding, or separation. Guilt is the superglue of life which keeps us stuck in painful patterns and situations, while forgiveness is the solvent which releases us not only from our guilt, but also from our withdrawal, unworthiness and sacrifice, and from the feelings of deadness, exhaustion, difficulty, being stuck, valuelessness and overcompensation. As we are released from that which separates us, we are reconnected and the problem is solved.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, understand that it is important to motivate yourself to forgive, because what you don’t forgive in any one person, you don’t forgive in everyone, including yourself. This means that, without forgiveness, you will create distance - even with those you love the most. The power to change your situation is in your hands. Forgiveness is a choice which creates a new giving forth and a new receiving. Release your grievances so the hidden self-attack and lack of freedom will be released. If done by oneself, forgiveness is a difficult lesson, and self-forgiveness can be even harder. But you can ask your Higher Mind for help in accomplishing the forgiveness.

While there are many beautiful forgiveness exercises, you could just as easily let it be done by grace. Realize that if you are blaming yourself or others the truth is being blurred. Choose the truth. Ask to know it. Ask for the forgiveness to occur. This may happen layer by layer, or it may occur all at once. In other words, you can ask for a miracle and the whole situation can be seen in a new light.

Freedom (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Principle coming from commitment and truth, allowing for happiness and giving yourself fully

Freedom is actually a healing concept which is a derivative of both commitment and truth. To receive it as a gift card means that freedom will be gifted to you in someway, that something which has kept you in chains will fall away. Today, something is moving out of your way and out of your life to give you a new breathing space, an new clarity and a new openness. You have given of yourself, and now the gift of freedom is coming to you. This means the stress, worries, burdens, troubles, misery and sacrifice and all fall away. As you allow yourself freedom, it demonstrates your own self-love. As you give others freedom, it demonstrates your love for them.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, do not be deceived by any traps. Be careful not to confuse freedom with the rebellion of independence — that is actually dissociation ( not wanting to be dependent on anyone) and is only a guise for freedom. Something which has stopped you is about to fall away. Celebrate its departure. Freedom will bring about true connection and true responsiveness, rather than ‘burdensomeness’. It is available and being offered to you today, to let you know of life’s sweetness. True freedom allows you to give yourself fully, because in doing so, you feel both free and focused. If connection and communication are the true state of being, it follows that freedom allows us to see our relationships with both things and people in a way which gives everyone liberty. Your freedom allows for happiness… and happiness takes no prisoners.

Problem
Death Temptation
(From Victim Suite)
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The Way Through
Forgiveness
(From Healing Suite)
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Gift
Freedom
(From Gift Suite)
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