Three Card Reading

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3 Card Reading
From the Enlightenment Pack by Chuck Spezzano
The 3 Card Reading uses the principle of synchronicity to select
To begin, just think of a problem you have right at the moment (and if you don't have any problems then think of something you'd like to improve in your life). Choose a problem that you'd like to clear, if not entirely then at least the next layer of it. Think about this problem
Pick a card from the negative combination suits
3 Card Reading
Card 1 - The Problem
The first card represents the Psychological dynamic which is causing the problem. Look at this hidden or undrlying issue. Take your time, see if this could possibly be true for you. If you can't see it then look at those around.
Holding On (From Relationship Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Attachment to past needs; fear of moving forward

Holding on is an attempt to get needs from the past fulfilled in our current situation. Yet the situation or person involved is unlikely to meet these needs, which keeps us from receiving in the present. The mind, believing what it imagines to be true, fools us into thinking we actually have the person or quality we are holding on to from the past. A sure sign you’re holding on to something from the past is that something’s missing from your life now. In whatever place you had this quality in the past - but refused to let go of it - you will not have it in the present. Holding on is a form of tantrum, a form of refusing to go forward until you get your way. In doing so, we turn from a life direction to a death direction.

Most people confuse holding on with love, but holding on has more to do with getting your needs met. While there is a natural mourning process we go through when we have lost someone or something, holding on is a form of malingering. The more you hold on, the more unattractive you become, and the more you push away the person you’re holding on to (at some level, the other person realizes your ‘love’ is not about him or her, but that it’s about you getting your needs met). Paradoxically, letting go brings back your attractiveness, and also brings both empowerment and the next step. However, it is important to make the distinction between letting go and pushing away (which is dissociating). This kind rejecting is independence and it comes from being it just fed up and angry. The neediness, dependency and pain that hide under anger will have to be faced sooner or later.

So, a person must decide, whether they want to hold on, or to succeed. If you’re holding on to a person who has left, they will be repulsed by it. But if you let go of them layer by layer (or, all at once, if you're courageous), they will recontact you. If you stay connected, but unattached, you are bound for success, whereas holding on always prevents success. Now is the time to make a choice. Do you want success, or do you want to continue to hold on and manipulate to get your needs met?

Using the card
If you receive this card, you are being asked to take look at what you are holding on to. Receiving this card means you are being asked to let go and to trust in yourself. In letting go and being open-handed, you can now receive.

While letting go can be a particularly difficult lesson, it can be done easily and with grace. There are different forms of letting go. One is simply to feel the feeling until all the negative, or dead, feelings and emotions are gone, and there is a positive feeling there instead. The negative emotion can even be exaggerated to accelerate the process. Another way is using the healing Leadership Principle: ‘If I’m suffering this, there is someone else in even greater need of help. Who is that?’ When the answer comes, step through your pain to respond to, and support, them. Your pain and theirs, or at least one layer of it, will drop away, and you will once again be in the flow. If there are many layers of pain, you could just keep responding to different people. Each time you step through your pain to support someone else, to make the other person more important, further layers of your pain will drop away. This works much better than avoiding it, denying it or trying to tough it out.

Letting go is taking the next step forward (which is being willing for the next step to come to you); it is giving back whatever you are holding on to; it is making the choice, ‘I will no longer use this to hold myself back.’ It is forgiveness. Simply, it is giving the attachment to your Higher Mind so that you can end your suffering and succeed.

Pick a card from the Healing Suite (Green Card)
3 Card Reading
Card 2 - The Way Through
This step is the healing path, the answer, the way through. If there's an
Joining (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Re-establishing contact; partnership; achieving a ‘win-win’ situation; finding the one solution

Joining heals separation — and there is no problem which does not have separation as one of its core dynamics. It is only in contact that you are successful, whereas withdrawal leads to a lack of success, which means some grievance or pain (hidden or otherwise) has backed you away from life. The extent to which you are backed away is the extent to which you are in sacrifice — giving without receiving. Joining brings you out of withdrawal, lack of success, guilt, unworthiness, fear and pain, so you can once again establish contact with the world.

In the reconnection, which is an act of love which extents you, you will realize the connection was the truth. In truth, this connection was never lost or could it be. It is only our unawareness of Oneness which keeps us in pain. In every act of commitment, giving, integrating, forgiving, receiving, trust, and so on, we create a joining, and heal ourselves. Joining establishes a mutuality which brings about the next step. It avoids power struggle and finds the solution. It releases you from the prison where you have been stuck. By your mutual support with another, partnership and success are assured.

Using the card
If you receive this card, you are asked to make ending the separation a priority and join the other person in the situation. Make them more important than your grievances and hidden guilt, your judgment and hidden sense of failure, your fear and your pain — all of which cover the distance between you and that person. Call them, write to them, visit them, or, if that is not possible, imagine yourself walking the metaphoric distance between you and them until you join. Each step toward them is actually a step out of inner defeat and into a place of partnership and winning together. Joining lets you know that you are truly not alone, and that there is always one solution – no matter what the problem.

Pick a card from the Gift and Grace
3 Card Reading
Card 3 - The Gift
Don't forget to receive your Gift... it's the very thing that this problem has
Freedom (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Principle coming from commitment and truth, allowing for happiness and giving yourself fully

Freedom is actually a healing concept which is a derivative of both commitment and truth. To receive it as a gift card means that freedom will be gifted to you in someway, that something which has kept you in chains will fall away. Today, something is moving out of your way and out of your life to give you a new breathing space, an new clarity and a new openness. You have given of yourself, and now the gift of freedom is coming to you. This means the stress, worries, burdens, troubles, misery and sacrifice and all fall away. As you allow yourself freedom, it demonstrates your own self-love. As you give others freedom, it demonstrates your love for them.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, do not be deceived by any traps. Be careful not to confuse freedom with the rebellion of independence — that is actually dissociation ( not wanting to be dependent on anyone) and is only a guise for freedom. Something which has stopped you is about to fall away. Celebrate its departure. Freedom will bring about true connection and true responsiveness, rather than ‘burdensomeness’. It is available and being offered to you today, to let you know of life’s sweetness. True freedom allows you to give yourself fully, because in doing so, you feel both free and focused. If connection and communication are the true state of being, it follows that freedom allows us to see our relationships with both things and people in a way which gives everyone liberty. Your freedom allows for happiness… and happiness takes no prisoners.

3 Card Reading
We sincerely hope this card reading has helped you and given you an insight to your issue. This service is free to use and many people use it on a regular basis to look below the surface of problems in their lives to find answers. If you would like to have another reading using a new set, click the button at the bottom of this page.
Holding On (From Relationship Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Attachment to past needs; fear of moving forward

Holding on is an attempt to get needs from the past fulfilled in our current situation. Yet the situation or person involved is unlikely to meet these needs, which keeps us from receiving in the present. The mind, believing what it imagines to be true, fools us into thinking we actually have the person or quality we are holding on to from the past. A sure sign you’re holding on to something from the past is that something’s missing from your life now. In whatever place you had this quality in the past - but refused to let go of it - you will not have it in the present. Holding on is a form of tantrum, a form of refusing to go forward until you get your way. In doing so, we turn from a life direction to a death direction.

Most people confuse holding on with love, but holding on has more to do with getting your needs met. While there is a natural mourning process we go through when we have lost someone or something, holding on is a form of malingering. The more you hold on, the more unattractive you become, and the more you push away the person you’re holding on to (at some level, the other person realizes your ‘love’ is not about him or her, but that it’s about you getting your needs met). Paradoxically, letting go brings back your attractiveness, and also brings both empowerment and the next step. However, it is important to make the distinction between letting go and pushing away (which is dissociating). This kind rejecting is independence and it comes from being it just fed up and angry. The neediness, dependency and pain that hide under anger will have to be faced sooner or later.

So, a person must decide, whether they want to hold on, or to succeed. If you’re holding on to a person who has left, they will be repulsed by it. But if you let go of them layer by layer (or, all at once, if you're courageous), they will recontact you. If you stay connected, but unattached, you are bound for success, whereas holding on always prevents success. Now is the time to make a choice. Do you want success, or do you want to continue to hold on and manipulate to get your needs met?

Using the card
If you receive this card, you are being asked to take look at what you are holding on to. Receiving this card means you are being asked to let go and to trust in yourself. In letting go and being open-handed, you can now receive.

While letting go can be a particularly difficult lesson, it can be done easily and with grace. There are different forms of letting go. One is simply to feel the feeling until all the negative, or dead, feelings and emotions are gone, and there is a positive feeling there instead. The negative emotion can even be exaggerated to accelerate the process. Another way is using the healing Leadership Principle: ‘If I’m suffering this, there is someone else in even greater need of help. Who is that?’ When the answer comes, step through your pain to respond to, and support, them. Your pain and theirs, or at least one layer of it, will drop away, and you will once again be in the flow. If there are many layers of pain, you could just keep responding to different people. Each time you step through your pain to support someone else, to make the other person more important, further layers of your pain will drop away. This works much better than avoiding it, denying it or trying to tough it out.

Letting go is taking the next step forward (which is being willing for the next step to come to you); it is giving back whatever you are holding on to; it is making the choice, ‘I will no longer use this to hold myself back.’ It is forgiveness. Simply, it is giving the attachment to your Higher Mind so that you can end your suffering and succeed.

Joining (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Re-establishing contact; partnership; achieving a ‘win-win’ situation; finding the one solution

Joining heals separation — and there is no problem which does not have separation as one of its core dynamics. It is only in contact that you are successful, whereas withdrawal leads to a lack of success, which means some grievance or pain (hidden or otherwise) has backed you away from life. The extent to which you are backed away is the extent to which you are in sacrifice — giving without receiving. Joining brings you out of withdrawal, lack of success, guilt, unworthiness, fear and pain, so you can once again establish contact with the world.

In the reconnection, which is an act of love which extents you, you will realize the connection was the truth. In truth, this connection was never lost or could it be. It is only our unawareness of Oneness which keeps us in pain. In every act of commitment, giving, integrating, forgiving, receiving, trust, and so on, we create a joining, and heal ourselves. Joining establishes a mutuality which brings about the next step. It avoids power struggle and finds the solution. It releases you from the prison where you have been stuck. By your mutual support with another, partnership and success are assured.

Using the card
If you receive this card, you are asked to make ending the separation a priority and join the other person in the situation. Make them more important than your grievances and hidden guilt, your judgment and hidden sense of failure, your fear and your pain — all of which cover the distance between you and that person. Call them, write to them, visit them, or, if that is not possible, imagine yourself walking the metaphoric distance between you and them until you join. Each step toward them is actually a step out of inner defeat and into a place of partnership and winning together. Joining lets you know that you are truly not alone, and that there is always one solution – no matter what the problem.

Freedom (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Principle coming from commitment and truth, allowing for happiness and giving yourself fully

Freedom is actually a healing concept which is a derivative of both commitment and truth. To receive it as a gift card means that freedom will be gifted to you in someway, that something which has kept you in chains will fall away. Today, something is moving out of your way and out of your life to give you a new breathing space, an new clarity and a new openness. You have given of yourself, and now the gift of freedom is coming to you. This means the stress, worries, burdens, troubles, misery and sacrifice and all fall away. As you allow yourself freedom, it demonstrates your own self-love. As you give others freedom, it demonstrates your love for them.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, do not be deceived by any traps. Be careful not to confuse freedom with the rebellion of independence — that is actually dissociation ( not wanting to be dependent on anyone) and is only a guise for freedom. Something which has stopped you is about to fall away. Celebrate its departure. Freedom will bring about true connection and true responsiveness, rather than ‘burdensomeness’. It is available and being offered to you today, to let you know of life’s sweetness. True freedom allows you to give yourself fully, because in doing so, you feel both free and focused. If connection and communication are the true state of being, it follows that freedom allows us to see our relationships with both things and people in a way which gives everyone liberty. Your freedom allows for happiness… and happiness takes no prisoners.

Problem
Holding On
(From Relationship Suite)
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The Way Through
Joining
(From Healing Suite)
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Gift
Freedom
(From Gift Suite)
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