Three Card Reading

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3 Card Reading
From the Enlightenment Pack by Chuck Spezzano
The 3 Card Reading uses the principle of synchronicity to select
To begin, just think of a problem you have right at the moment (and if you don't have any problems then think of something you'd like to improve in your life). Choose a problem that you'd like to clear, if not entirely then at least the next layer of it. Think about this problem
Pick a card from the negative combination suits
3 Card Reading
Card 1 - The Problem
The first card represents the Psychological dynamic which is causing the problem. Look at this hidden or undrlying issue. Take your time, see if this could possibly be true for you. If you can't see it then look at those around.
Valuelessness (From Unconscious Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Feelings of worthlessness tied in with guilt (often hidden under compensation)

Valuelessness is a core feeling of the unconscious mind which is so painful that we feel as if we are totally worthless. Valuelessness is closely linked and tied in with guilt. Much of this feeling comes from places where, as a child, there was a traumatic family happening, and we blamed ourselves, left our centers and went into sacrifice. But this just increases the feeling of valuelessness. Typically, we compensate for this feeling by becoming practical and hard workers to ‘prove’ that we are useful and note merely decorative. But all of this ‘proving’ our worth doesn’t allow for very much receiving. The receiving it does allow for is lost in paying off the stress of working so hard. Many times people will have spent a whole lifetime working hard and doing useful projects. Then they come to the end of their life and feel it was all valueless.

Using the card
If you receive this card, you are being asked to look at the feeling of valuelessness as the core source of the present problem or situation. Also, look for signs of compensation which hide the feeling from us, because we will have to face it at some point. With this card, just sit down for a moment and ask what Heaven’s value is for you, or what your Higher Mind has to say about your value.

If you intuitively ask what earlier situation brought on the feelings or situation showing up now and imagine yourself back in that situation, you will see the Light within you reconnecting you with everyone in the situation. Ask your Higher Mind to return you to that center of peace, innocence and being, where grace can pour through you to help heal the situation. Your Higher Mind can accomplish this for you, and you can just witness it. When it occurs you will have a feeling of peace. However, if this isn’t accomplished easily, or if the peace doesn’t feel complete, it means there is an earlier trauma than the one you have reconnected with which must be healed. At the core of all misunderstandings and all problems there is an experience of separation. When the reconnection is made, the problem is healed.

Pick a card from the Healing Suite (Green Card)
3 Card Reading
Card 2 - The Way Through
This step is the healing path, the answer, the way through. If there's an
Communication (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Faith; confidence; putting the power of your mind toward a positive outcome

Communication restores trust, and bridges what seem like two irre-concilable positions. Clarifying ones position, feelings and thoughts accounts for about eighty-five percent of ‘healing communication’, since most problems are simply the result of a misunderstanding. Communication heals boredom by sharing what has been withheld, and bringing excitement back into a relationship. Communication finds the common elements and emotion in any conflict and brings people together in mutuality. Through transformational communication, people heal themselves and move forward together.

Using the card
If you receive this card, understand that true communication will provide the way to success. There are simple principles to follow for transformational communication:

Set your goal and know your purpose for the communication.. Realize that the other person is not here to meet your needs or to make you happy. This expectation creates a great deal of pain and constitutes the greatest mistake in any relationship.

Share your feeling of upset. Take responsibility for your feelings and experience. If they are your feelings, you are the one who can change them. Blame stops communication and look for scapegoats (no one advances when this occurs).

Remember that the other person will be motivated to communicate if you are saying, ‘I want to share something with you’ and meaning, ‘let me tell you what you did wrong’, then every time you open your mouth, you will be attacking — not communicating.

Take the upset feelings off the other person, and talk about your present feeling instead. Do this as if you (not the other person) are responsible for your feelings. As you talk about your feeling, identify whether they are old or familiar ones, which is the case if there is a negative pattern already there. Discuss how these feelings may originate from other times and places, and share any old memories of similar situations. To keep this effective, focus on the upsetting emotion as the most important thing to share, rather than the story.

If what you say ‘triggers off’ the other person emotionally, support them if they are in greater pain. When they have finished, return to what you were saying. During this communication, take a new attitude toward emotions. Be willing to feel your feelings with neither exaggeration nor dismissal. An exaggeration is a form of emotional manipulation or blackmail, which avoids true feeling. It also reinforces dissociation, non-communication and feelings of failure in the other person. Often in a relationship, when one person feels terrible it is actually a relationship feeling shared by both but usually only felt by one unless there’s a lot of awareness. If that person either runs from their feelings, or tries to give the bad feeling to the other, the result is a power struggle. Your willingness to own the bad feeling and transform it for both of you either by feeling the feelings until they are gone, or by some other means, will win the admiration of the other person. You willingness to move forward will move you both forward.

Take responsibility for the other person’s feelings and experiences as well as your own. See them as a part of your mind. Recognize that anything they seem to be doing to you that you do not like is typically what you are doing to your self or what you are doing to others. If what you are experiencing is painful, ask your Higher Mind for help and grace. Know that the extent to which you are relying on yourself is the extent of the difficulty. If nothing else, use the power of choice to decide, ‘I could be feeling peace or happiness instead of this misery.’ As you keep making this choice, you will notice the situation begin to unfold in a whole new way.

Make an effort to reassure the other person about your positive feelings toward them and the relationship. Do not be discouraged if your reassurances of love, faithfulness, and so on seem to disappear down a bottomless well, or if the other person seems to dismiss or not hear what you are saying — they will be listening and your reassurance will make a vital difference.

Do not allow grievances to get in the way – even if you feel justified – or you will suffer for it. To be totally right about how things are means you are them stuck with the situation as it presents itself. Be willing to be wrong, so a happy situation can present itself. If you don’t get caught by your anger, you can find the healing, the gift or miracle hiding behind every negativity.

Finally, remember to appreciate your partner through action, words and touch. Your appreciation is the portal to love. It creates flow and forward movement.

Pick a card from the Gift and Grace
3 Card Reading
Card 3 - The Gift
Don't forget to receive your Gift... it's the very thing that this problem has
Flow (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

The Tao; synchronicity; being lucky and in tune with the unfolding process

Flow is about all good things coming to you as you move forward in effortless effort. Everything falls in your favor because you are in tune with the unfolding process of life. Flow includes good timing, expectancy, opportunity, luck and is full of ease. It is like a boat floating down a river, meeting good things around every bend.

Using the card
If you get this card, and you are not in the flow, it just means you are using your situation as a form of control to stop yourself. Your awareness of the low itself is what brings it about. Appreciation, gratitude and the Leadership Principle (answering calls for help; making your problem less important that helping another, so that, as you join, both of you movie into the flow) are just a few of things which help bring us back into the flow.

Flow is neither pushing the river, nor going against the current; it is just moving with it. As the Native Americans from the Plains used to say, ‘It is best to ride the horse in the direction is going.’ If you receive this card as a response to an issue, or to a problem, you are asked to recognize that the problem is just a distraction from the gift of flow. Recognize that flow (which is actually present in the situation) will take you out of the block you are experiencing. Putting your attention on the gift will release this situation, and bring you into flow.

3 Card Reading
We sincerely hope this card reading has helped you and given you an insight to your issue. This service is free to use and many people use it on a regular basis to look below the surface of problems in their lives to find answers. If you would like to have another reading using a new set, click the button at the bottom of this page.
Valuelessness (From Unconscious Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Feelings of worthlessness tied in with guilt (often hidden under compensation)

Valuelessness is a core feeling of the unconscious mind which is so painful that we feel as if we are totally worthless. Valuelessness is closely linked and tied in with guilt. Much of this feeling comes from places where, as a child, there was a traumatic family happening, and we blamed ourselves, left our centers and went into sacrifice. But this just increases the feeling of valuelessness. Typically, we compensate for this feeling by becoming practical and hard workers to ‘prove’ that we are useful and note merely decorative. But all of this ‘proving’ our worth doesn’t allow for very much receiving. The receiving it does allow for is lost in paying off the stress of working so hard. Many times people will have spent a whole lifetime working hard and doing useful projects. Then they come to the end of their life and feel it was all valueless.

Using the card
If you receive this card, you are being asked to look at the feeling of valuelessness as the core source of the present problem or situation. Also, look for signs of compensation which hide the feeling from us, because we will have to face it at some point. With this card, just sit down for a moment and ask what Heaven’s value is for you, or what your Higher Mind has to say about your value.

If you intuitively ask what earlier situation brought on the feelings or situation showing up now and imagine yourself back in that situation, you will see the Light within you reconnecting you with everyone in the situation. Ask your Higher Mind to return you to that center of peace, innocence and being, where grace can pour through you to help heal the situation. Your Higher Mind can accomplish this for you, and you can just witness it. When it occurs you will have a feeling of peace. However, if this isn’t accomplished easily, or if the peace doesn’t feel complete, it means there is an earlier trauma than the one you have reconnected with which must be healed. At the core of all misunderstandings and all problems there is an experience of separation. When the reconnection is made, the problem is healed.

Communication (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Faith; confidence; putting the power of your mind toward a positive outcome

Communication restores trust, and bridges what seem like two irre-concilable positions. Clarifying ones position, feelings and thoughts accounts for about eighty-five percent of ‘healing communication’, since most problems are simply the result of a misunderstanding. Communication heals boredom by sharing what has been withheld, and bringing excitement back into a relationship. Communication finds the common elements and emotion in any conflict and brings people together in mutuality. Through transformational communication, people heal themselves and move forward together.

Using the card
If you receive this card, understand that true communication will provide the way to success. There are simple principles to follow for transformational communication:

Set your goal and know your purpose for the communication.. Realize that the other person is not here to meet your needs or to make you happy. This expectation creates a great deal of pain and constitutes the greatest mistake in any relationship.

Share your feeling of upset. Take responsibility for your feelings and experience. If they are your feelings, you are the one who can change them. Blame stops communication and look for scapegoats (no one advances when this occurs).

Remember that the other person will be motivated to communicate if you are saying, ‘I want to share something with you’ and meaning, ‘let me tell you what you did wrong’, then every time you open your mouth, you will be attacking — not communicating.

Take the upset feelings off the other person, and talk about your present feeling instead. Do this as if you (not the other person) are responsible for your feelings. As you talk about your feeling, identify whether they are old or familiar ones, which is the case if there is a negative pattern already there. Discuss how these feelings may originate from other times and places, and share any old memories of similar situations. To keep this effective, focus on the upsetting emotion as the most important thing to share, rather than the story.

If what you say ‘triggers off’ the other person emotionally, support them if they are in greater pain. When they have finished, return to what you were saying. During this communication, take a new attitude toward emotions. Be willing to feel your feelings with neither exaggeration nor dismissal. An exaggeration is a form of emotional manipulation or blackmail, which avoids true feeling. It also reinforces dissociation, non-communication and feelings of failure in the other person. Often in a relationship, when one person feels terrible it is actually a relationship feeling shared by both but usually only felt by one unless there’s a lot of awareness. If that person either runs from their feelings, or tries to give the bad feeling to the other, the result is a power struggle. Your willingness to own the bad feeling and transform it for both of you either by feeling the feelings until they are gone, or by some other means, will win the admiration of the other person. You willingness to move forward will move you both forward.

Take responsibility for the other person’s feelings and experiences as well as your own. See them as a part of your mind. Recognize that anything they seem to be doing to you that you do not like is typically what you are doing to your self or what you are doing to others. If what you are experiencing is painful, ask your Higher Mind for help and grace. Know that the extent to which you are relying on yourself is the extent of the difficulty. If nothing else, use the power of choice to decide, ‘I could be feeling peace or happiness instead of this misery.’ As you keep making this choice, you will notice the situation begin to unfold in a whole new way.

Make an effort to reassure the other person about your positive feelings toward them and the relationship. Do not be discouraged if your reassurances of love, faithfulness, and so on seem to disappear down a bottomless well, or if the other person seems to dismiss or not hear what you are saying — they will be listening and your reassurance will make a vital difference.

Do not allow grievances to get in the way – even if you feel justified – or you will suffer for it. To be totally right about how things are means you are them stuck with the situation as it presents itself. Be willing to be wrong, so a happy situation can present itself. If you don’t get caught by your anger, you can find the healing, the gift or miracle hiding behind every negativity.

Finally, remember to appreciate your partner through action, words and touch. Your appreciation is the portal to love. It creates flow and forward movement.

Flow (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

The Tao; synchronicity; being lucky and in tune with the unfolding process

Flow is about all good things coming to you as you move forward in effortless effort. Everything falls in your favor because you are in tune with the unfolding process of life. Flow includes good timing, expectancy, opportunity, luck and is full of ease. It is like a boat floating down a river, meeting good things around every bend.

Using the card
If you get this card, and you are not in the flow, it just means you are using your situation as a form of control to stop yourself. Your awareness of the low itself is what brings it about. Appreciation, gratitude and the Leadership Principle (answering calls for help; making your problem less important that helping another, so that, as you join, both of you movie into the flow) are just a few of things which help bring us back into the flow.

Flow is neither pushing the river, nor going against the current; it is just moving with it. As the Native Americans from the Plains used to say, ‘It is best to ride the horse in the direction is going.’ If you receive this card as a response to an issue, or to a problem, you are asked to recognize that the problem is just a distraction from the gift of flow. Recognize that flow (which is actually present in the situation) will take you out of the block you are experiencing. Putting your attention on the gift will release this situation, and bring you into flow.

Problem
Valuelessness
(From Unconscious Suite)
Review
The Way Through
Communication
(From Healing Suite)
Review
Gift
Flow
(From Gift Suite)
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