Three Card Reading

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3 Card Reading
From the Enlightenment Pack by Chuck Spezzano
The 3 Card Reading uses the principle of synchronicity to select
To begin, just think of a problem you have right at the moment (and if you don't have any problems then think of something you'd like to improve in your life). Choose a problem that you'd like to clear, if not entirely then at least the next layer of it. Think about this problem
Pick a card from the negative combination suits
3 Card Reading
Card 1 - The Problem
The first card represents the Psychological dynamic which is causing the problem. Look at this hidden or undrlying issue. Take your time, see if this could possibly be true for you. If you can't see it then look at those around.
Fear (From Victim Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Separation; conflict; thoughts of loss or attack; planning or trying to manage the future; defences

Most people think of fear as something that comes from outside to threaten us. Yet fear actually comes from within the mind. It represents an inner conflict that wants two different things: the thought of moving forward toward one of the things that we desire creates the fear that in so doing we would unavoidably lose something else. Fear arises as a result of living in the past, planning or defending in some way, and trying to handle a future we haven't arrived at yet. As a direct result of bad feelings we still have about the past, our fear projects the past on to the future; we have the feeling that the same type of thing will happen to us again.

It could be said that all problems - all negative emotions - stem from fear. Fear is present at the birth of every problem. It comes about through our judgments, grievances and attack thoughts, all of which cause us to see the world as unsafe and unsavory. We feel frightened, not realizing that the fear begins in our own mind, and as a result of how we separate and defend ourselves from people, situations or things. In fact, any and all separation we have inside us gives rise to fearful situations. Notice that every time we join, integrate, or bring love into a situation, fear dissolves; as we move forward with confidence, the past dissipates; and, as the past is cleared up, so is the future.

Using the card
When this card is picked you are being asked to take responsibility; to change your thoughts about your situation through choice, and to begin to think and feel in a healed (or healing) and positive way. Many things will heal fear. Choose to feel your negative feelings until they disperse and turn into positive ones of love, joining, forgiveness, willingness, faith or trust. You can change both the situation at hand and the world by changing your mind and choosing to respond in a different way.

Pick a card from the Healing Suite (Green Card)
3 Card Reading
Card 2 - The Way Through
This step is the healing path, the answer, the way through. If there's an
Communication (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Faith; confidence; putting the power of your mind toward a positive outcome

Communication restores trust, and bridges what seem like two irre-concilable positions. Clarifying ones position, feelings and thoughts accounts for about eighty-five percent of ‘healing communication’, since most problems are simply the result of a misunderstanding. Communication heals boredom by sharing what has been withheld, and bringing excitement back into a relationship. Communication finds the common elements and emotion in any conflict and brings people together in mutuality. Through transformational communication, people heal themselves and move forward together.

Using the card
If you receive this card, understand that true communication will provide the way to success. There are simple principles to follow for transformational communication:

Set your goal and know your purpose for the communication.. Realize that the other person is not here to meet your needs or to make you happy. This expectation creates a great deal of pain and constitutes the greatest mistake in any relationship.

Share your feeling of upset. Take responsibility for your feelings and experience. If they are your feelings, you are the one who can change them. Blame stops communication and look for scapegoats (no one advances when this occurs).

Remember that the other person will be motivated to communicate if you are saying, ‘I want to share something with you’ and meaning, ‘let me tell you what you did wrong’, then every time you open your mouth, you will be attacking — not communicating.

Take the upset feelings off the other person, and talk about your present feeling instead. Do this as if you (not the other person) are responsible for your feelings. As you talk about your feeling, identify whether they are old or familiar ones, which is the case if there is a negative pattern already there. Discuss how these feelings may originate from other times and places, and share any old memories of similar situations. To keep this effective, focus on the upsetting emotion as the most important thing to share, rather than the story.

If what you say ‘triggers off’ the other person emotionally, support them if they are in greater pain. When they have finished, return to what you were saying. During this communication, take a new attitude toward emotions. Be willing to feel your feelings with neither exaggeration nor dismissal. An exaggeration is a form of emotional manipulation or blackmail, which avoids true feeling. It also reinforces dissociation, non-communication and feelings of failure in the other person. Often in a relationship, when one person feels terrible it is actually a relationship feeling shared by both but usually only felt by one unless there’s a lot of awareness. If that person either runs from their feelings, or tries to give the bad feeling to the other, the result is a power struggle. Your willingness to own the bad feeling and transform it for both of you either by feeling the feelings until they are gone, or by some other means, will win the admiration of the other person. You willingness to move forward will move you both forward.

Take responsibility for the other person’s feelings and experiences as well as your own. See them as a part of your mind. Recognize that anything they seem to be doing to you that you do not like is typically what you are doing to your self or what you are doing to others. If what you are experiencing is painful, ask your Higher Mind for help and grace. Know that the extent to which you are relying on yourself is the extent of the difficulty. If nothing else, use the power of choice to decide, ‘I could be feeling peace or happiness instead of this misery.’ As you keep making this choice, you will notice the situation begin to unfold in a whole new way.

Make an effort to reassure the other person about your positive feelings toward them and the relationship. Do not be discouraged if your reassurances of love, faithfulness, and so on seem to disappear down a bottomless well, or if the other person seems to dismiss or not hear what you are saying — they will be listening and your reassurance will make a vital difference.

Do not allow grievances to get in the way – even if you feel justified – or you will suffer for it. To be totally right about how things are means you are them stuck with the situation as it presents itself. Be willing to be wrong, so a happy situation can present itself. If you don’t get caught by your anger, you can find the healing, the gift or miracle hiding behind every negativity.

Finally, remember to appreciate your partner through action, words and touch. Your appreciation is the portal to love. It creates flow and forward movement.

Pick a card from the Gift and Grace
3 Card Reading
Card 3 - The Gift
Don't forget to receive your Gift... it's the very thing that this problem has
Abundance (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Richness; gratitude; appreciation; willingness to receive, give and move forward

Abundance not only speaks of money, but of richness in all areas, including quality of living. Accept abundance today as your natural gift. All good things want to be given to you today, if you have the willingness to receive them. Your receiving will allow you to give at a much higher level, which, in turn, will allow you more receiving at an even higher level. So, everything will move forward for you and for everyone.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, be open to all that wants to be given to you. Life wants to show you its richness and share that with you. If there seem to be blocks, these are just there to hide the abundance which wants to come to you. If you feel yourself at all cut off from it, your appreciation and gratitude of the smallest aspects of life will open you to the greatest ones. Pay attention to abundance in the smallest forms and it will begin growing today.

3 Card Reading
We sincerely hope this card reading has helped you and given you an insight to your issue. This service is free to use and many people use it on a regular basis to look below the surface of problems in their lives to find answers. If you would like to have another reading using a new set, click the button at the bottom of this page.
Fear (From Victim Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Separation; conflict; thoughts of loss or attack; planning or trying to manage the future; defences

Most people think of fear as something that comes from outside to threaten us. Yet fear actually comes from within the mind. It represents an inner conflict that wants two different things: the thought of moving forward toward one of the things that we desire creates the fear that in so doing we would unavoidably lose something else. Fear arises as a result of living in the past, planning or defending in some way, and trying to handle a future we haven't arrived at yet. As a direct result of bad feelings we still have about the past, our fear projects the past on to the future; we have the feeling that the same type of thing will happen to us again.

It could be said that all problems - all negative emotions - stem from fear. Fear is present at the birth of every problem. It comes about through our judgments, grievances and attack thoughts, all of which cause us to see the world as unsafe and unsavory. We feel frightened, not realizing that the fear begins in our own mind, and as a result of how we separate and defend ourselves from people, situations or things. In fact, any and all separation we have inside us gives rise to fearful situations. Notice that every time we join, integrate, or bring love into a situation, fear dissolves; as we move forward with confidence, the past dissipates; and, as the past is cleared up, so is the future.

Using the card
When this card is picked you are being asked to take responsibility; to change your thoughts about your situation through choice, and to begin to think and feel in a healed (or healing) and positive way. Many things will heal fear. Choose to feel your negative feelings until they disperse and turn into positive ones of love, joining, forgiveness, willingness, faith or trust. You can change both the situation at hand and the world by changing your mind and choosing to respond in a different way.

Communication (From Healing Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Faith; confidence; putting the power of your mind toward a positive outcome

Communication restores trust, and bridges what seem like two irre-concilable positions. Clarifying ones position, feelings and thoughts accounts for about eighty-five percent of ‘healing communication’, since most problems are simply the result of a misunderstanding. Communication heals boredom by sharing what has been withheld, and bringing excitement back into a relationship. Communication finds the common elements and emotion in any conflict and brings people together in mutuality. Through transformational communication, people heal themselves and move forward together.

Using the card
If you receive this card, understand that true communication will provide the way to success. There are simple principles to follow for transformational communication:

Set your goal and know your purpose for the communication.. Realize that the other person is not here to meet your needs or to make you happy. This expectation creates a great deal of pain and constitutes the greatest mistake in any relationship.

Share your feeling of upset. Take responsibility for your feelings and experience. If they are your feelings, you are the one who can change them. Blame stops communication and look for scapegoats (no one advances when this occurs).

Remember that the other person will be motivated to communicate if you are saying, ‘I want to share something with you’ and meaning, ‘let me tell you what you did wrong’, then every time you open your mouth, you will be attacking — not communicating.

Take the upset feelings off the other person, and talk about your present feeling instead. Do this as if you (not the other person) are responsible for your feelings. As you talk about your feeling, identify whether they are old or familiar ones, which is the case if there is a negative pattern already there. Discuss how these feelings may originate from other times and places, and share any old memories of similar situations. To keep this effective, focus on the upsetting emotion as the most important thing to share, rather than the story.

If what you say ‘triggers off’ the other person emotionally, support them if they are in greater pain. When they have finished, return to what you were saying. During this communication, take a new attitude toward emotions. Be willing to feel your feelings with neither exaggeration nor dismissal. An exaggeration is a form of emotional manipulation or blackmail, which avoids true feeling. It also reinforces dissociation, non-communication and feelings of failure in the other person. Often in a relationship, when one person feels terrible it is actually a relationship feeling shared by both but usually only felt by one unless there’s a lot of awareness. If that person either runs from their feelings, or tries to give the bad feeling to the other, the result is a power struggle. Your willingness to own the bad feeling and transform it for both of you either by feeling the feelings until they are gone, or by some other means, will win the admiration of the other person. You willingness to move forward will move you both forward.

Take responsibility for the other person’s feelings and experiences as well as your own. See them as a part of your mind. Recognize that anything they seem to be doing to you that you do not like is typically what you are doing to your self or what you are doing to others. If what you are experiencing is painful, ask your Higher Mind for help and grace. Know that the extent to which you are relying on yourself is the extent of the difficulty. If nothing else, use the power of choice to decide, ‘I could be feeling peace or happiness instead of this misery.’ As you keep making this choice, you will notice the situation begin to unfold in a whole new way.

Make an effort to reassure the other person about your positive feelings toward them and the relationship. Do not be discouraged if your reassurances of love, faithfulness, and so on seem to disappear down a bottomless well, or if the other person seems to dismiss or not hear what you are saying — they will be listening and your reassurance will make a vital difference.

Do not allow grievances to get in the way – even if you feel justified – or you will suffer for it. To be totally right about how things are means you are them stuck with the situation as it presents itself. Be willing to be wrong, so a happy situation can present itself. If you don’t get caught by your anger, you can find the healing, the gift or miracle hiding behind every negativity.

Finally, remember to appreciate your partner through action, words and touch. Your appreciation is the portal to love. It creates flow and forward movement.

Abundance (From Gift Suite)

KEY CONCEPTS:

Richness; gratitude; appreciation; willingness to receive, give and move forward

Abundance not only speaks of money, but of richness in all areas, including quality of living. Accept abundance today as your natural gift. All good things want to be given to you today, if you have the willingness to receive them. Your receiving will allow you to give at a much higher level, which, in turn, will allow you more receiving at an even higher level. So, everything will move forward for you and for everyone.

Using the card
If you receive this card today, be open to all that wants to be given to you. Life wants to show you its richness and share that with you. If there seem to be blocks, these are just there to hide the abundance which wants to come to you. If you feel yourself at all cut off from it, your appreciation and gratitude of the smallest aspects of life will open you to the greatest ones. Pay attention to abundance in the smallest forms and it will begin growing today.

Problem
Fear
(From Victim Suite)
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The Way Through
Communication
(From Healing Suite)
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Gift
Abundance
(From Gift Suite)
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